5. I’m more grateful for you than you realize.
4. I so appreciate it when you cut my family some slack.
3. I don’t always know what to do.
2. I also have doubts.
1. I’m trying to step off the pedestal people keep putting me on.
From: ”5 things your Pastor wishes they could tell you”
by Carey Nieuwhof.
CHANGE IS PART OF HOW GOD WORKS
Some thoughts on our hello/goodbye/hello ministry life together
My warm Easter greetings to you all, with blessings and wishes that you have had peace in Christ over the holiday.
If church has taught me anything it’s that change is not just inevitable, but also ubiquitous. In all congregations people come and go; some officially and some without paperwork; Jesus for the record was not big on paperwork—that's a human church thing that starts after the resurrection. So, change is ever present, and change persists; this is one of many Christian challenges since the nativity and maybe even before that—think of the prophets.
Over the next several weeks we will say goodbye to Rhonda Raphael as our Congregational Life minister in residence. Her role will decrease as she and her family begin to enjoy the sacred rest period that she truly deserves. We are thankful for her service, and we pray she will find it easy to disengage with leadership in the coming months. Rhonda has served well. It has been my pleasure to walk with her and learn about Peace from her during my time here. We have disagreed and agreed on several things because we are very different people. And I have appreciated her willingness to explain and differ to me as Pastor on most occasions. There’s a saying in ministry and in backgammon, “win some, lose some.”
The above passage from Nieuwhof says succinctly and briefly all that should be said about good changes in ministry. I join our faith community in being grateful for Rhonda’s service at Peace. I appreciate her patience with me as well as with all of you and even our denominational leadership during her time of service here. None of us are perfect but God, and most of us strive to the best of our abilities within the moment to be open to the Lord’s purposes through us as leaders especially. In closing I would ask for your continued prayers upon our shared ministry; pray for our leadership, for those leaving and those staying and, also, most particularly upon those discerning God’s call to help lead anew in the coming years. May God bless and hold us all and for Mrs. Rhonda on the way out of her office but not out of our hearts or our sanctuary as we say: "well done good and faithful one."
Yours in Christ, Pastor Rich